53: My Personal Struggle With Self-Doubt

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53: My Personal Struggle With Self-Doubt. How you can overcome yours to get from stuck to unstoppable.


We all have our doubts and self-limiting beliefs that can either build us up or break us down. It all depends on how you will handle these monsters, that you can turn everything around, and use these as a stepping stone for you to achieve success.
Hello! My name is Genecia Alluora. Good to have you today. In today’s episode, I want to talk a little bit about my personal struggle with self-doubt. Self-doubt is a huge monster for me over my years of growing up and even though I’ve done a lot of inner healing and curing myself literally with different programs and techniques and ways!

Being vulnerable

07:34 - 08:02 It is through being honest with myself, being vulnerable with my community, with my tribe like yourself. Being real and vulnerable with my mentor that only he can have a clear path on how to direct my path, how to direct my mind, and guide me through these obstacles, big hairy dark ass monsters and then breaking through them to move to the next level. 08:03 - 08:24  So are you experiencing some form of self-doubt? Well, I will say there is still hope because even for people like us we do have doubts as well in our minds however it’s just that we have solutions to get from point A to point B a lot faster.

How I cleared my monsters 

06:30 - 07:02 All these monsters are real. And how did I stop all these monsters? Like I shared with you, I talked to my mentors. Be open with them about how exactly I feel and of course, you must establish that, like I said you must establish your growth relationship and rapport with your mentors that it’s a safe place, safe haven for you to say what you want to say directly from your heart because only then when the coast is clear when the thing is out of the bag  07:06 - 07:18 that’s when you can look at it like bringing the darkness to light. Bring the darkness into the bright light and examine this darkness in the light and darkness will dissipate, darkness will disappear. 07:21 - 07:32  So my struggles with self-doubt has been a real struggle. It’s real. And even up to today as I’m recording this it is real.

My big hairy giant monsters

03:46 - 04:12 It’s not easy for me to come out and say that even as a successful entrepreneur we occasionally still face our big hairy giant monsters. So it’s not to make anyone feel better but really this is a journey that nobody really wants to talk about and I would love to address this. 04:12 - 04:20 So even though I may be speaking on the global stage with Jay Abraham, Kim Kiyosaki, Gary Vaynerchuk. 04:23 - 04:37 Being seen with these big giants, great! But I still face my personal struggles because I ask myself ‘Am I good enough? Am I adequate? Can I speak really good English?’ 04:47 - 05:07 So I go through a lot of these and it’s tough because I fight with the monsters and thank God that I know how to say thank you to these noises and voices and kind of treat it for a while. Kind of like give it some medicine.
Key Takeaways:

1. There is always a solution to every doubt you have.


2. Have a mentor who will guide you through.


3. The struggles are real but there’s still hope.


4. Breakthrough the self-limiting beliefs that you have.


5. Defeat the monster in your head by being honest with yourself.

Key Resources:
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