195: 7 SIGNS YOU NEED TO WORK ON YOUR MINDSET

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144: 7 SIGNS YOU NEED TO WORK ON YOUR MINDSET

[00:00:06]
Speaker 1: Hey gorgeous, and welcome to today's episode. I'm your host, Genecia Alluora. Now, today I want to share the seven signs you need to work on your mindset. Now, when it comes to money, sooner or later there will be a wake-up call that happens for each of us.

[00:00:25]
Speaker 1: Maybe the last year has been a massive wake-up call for you. Your business might have to change completely because you realize that your old ways of marketing don't work anymore. Or maybe you've decided that life is too short to do the work that doesn't lock you up anymore. Often a bad client experience can be the wake-up call you need. There comes a time in every entrepreneur's life when you feel like throwing in the towel, giving up.

[00:00:56]
Speaker 1: After all, when you start a business, nobody really tells you how much is going to mess up with your confidence. Now, I just want to say this. You might have had all these moments yourself. Do you ever feel like there is an invisible glass ceiling holding you back from success? Maybe you've been stuck at a particular income level for years.

[00:01:22]
Speaker 1: Maybe you're telling yourself that you're too busy right now or the money isn't that important to you. Maybe you have conflicting feelings about wealth, worried that maybe it's not for you or that you have something to do something or you have to do something outside of your values to really make money or truly make enough money. If you are doing all that you can but still not making the financial breakthroughs, you know they are within your reach. It's time to do something different. You need a money reset.

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Speaker 1: Now, if you are undercharging in your business, you feel like you're pushing against the flow of money and can't figure out why it's so hard, I've got some answers for you that might just crack the code. I'm Genecia Alluora, founder of the number one female entrepreneur network here in Southeast Asia and also a money mindset coach. I also created the Soul Rich Women Blueprint that has helped thousands and tens of thousands of women to go breakthrough and own and love their F-word, being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence, and a happy family. I did not grow up with a good relationship to money and yet I've created millions of dollars in business revenue working to my strengths and also wrote books, personal development books. And all I can say is we all can have it all.

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Speaker 1: So if you think you might need to get another certificate or lose another ten kilos or somehow magically become the perfect you before you can make money, I'm here to tell you that that is bullshit. Now, I have the seven signs for you that money mindset is actually the next crucial step. If any of these seven reasons are true for you, then you'll love to work with me further. Now, reason one, you know it's your time. Finally this year you set big goals, thinking that this will be the year that your dreams come true.

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Speaker 1: You might even have a book that is sitting on your computer 90% done or program or course that's ready to launch. But something's just stopping you. Every day you wake up and you think now it's the time, now it's the right time. But the moment your income doesn't match up with your intelligence or with your degree or potential and the gifts you offer up to the world, you are tired. And you are tired of waiting for someone else to choose you, or you deem that you are ready to earn more.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you're frustrated in yourself that you haven't done it yet. But maybe today is the day and you know that it's now or never. And I see that for you. And I'm here to help you to make it come true. Reason two, you love personal development, but the money hasn't shown up yet.

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Speaker 1: Well, you could be feeling like a fraud or flaky person right now, because you're doing everything that's right, but it's just not working. I bet you have a dream board, a vision board, or you journal your goals regularly and you are a very positive person. You probably read every book that talks about making money, abundance under the sun. But you feel like there's still a missing puzzle piece. It feels unfair.

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Speaker 1: If you're honest with yourself, you know that you've been sabotaging money behaviors that is working against you, but you can't really change them. Well, that's really normal. Reason three, you don't earn what you're worth and you suspect that you're worth a lot more. The charge what you are worthing gets a really bad reputation, especially when we talk about it here in Soul Rich Woman, you need to charge your worth. 

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Speaker 1: Do less about the training, there should be a boundary. But you know, it really gets a bad reputation when we talk about these things. It's because women don't see that they are worth the amount and they're always using the excuse or that sentence. Women should just help women. Why should I charge or get someone to pay me for my products or services?

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Speaker 1: OK? I mean, you can't put a price tag on yourself as a human being, you are priceless. But guess what? Your business isn't. You actually have to name a price.

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Speaker 1: Every day I meet people. I meet women who are simply undercharging. They are doing pro bono work all the time. They are struggling to survive. Or even if they are well to do, they are not able to scale their business to the next level.

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Speaker 1: They know it, but they feel powerless to do anything about it. You might know it too, but you're still getting feedback that you are too expensive. Why should you charge when you're helping other people? You should be doing for free, you should be doing cheaper. And even when you know that you are drastically undercharging.

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Speaker 1: And that's usually the problem. When you undercharge, you energetically attract clients who will never be happy, who are usually complainers, and people who will step on you to go to the next step or face. And that's really so frustrating. Reason four, you want to live a first class, amazing life, but you're stuck in the rut. You're stuck in your cupboard.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I've been there and it sucks. You are sick of compromising areas in your life, like where you stay, what you eat, how you are treating your family, because we're talking about owning and loving the F-word. So being fabulous, freedom, financial independence and a happy family. So you're kind of sick of compromising all these four F-words in your life. Where you live, how you dress or how you travel.

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Speaker 1: It's exhausting, super tiring to have to justify every single dollar, every single cent. Think about it. Wouldn't it be nice and cool to have a peace of mind that you can always make more money? You're seeing other women rapidly increasing their income and you are kind of jealous. Yes, don't look left, look right.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm speaking to you right now. Sometimes you're kind of jealous that it's not you. All right, it's okay to admit it. Reason number five, you already know that you need a money mindset makeover. Maybe this isn't the first time you've checked out my work or listened to my podcast or been to my website or seen my landing pages of my programs.

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Speaker 1: You might even have gone through situations when you think, I've got to sort this out. For example, when you start to perspire, when you talk to an accountant or anyone official or officially about money. Or you sit and procrastinate, like sending out invoices. People send me their confessions all the time and say that they are so scared about money, in particular, talking about it and asking for it. You might even think you are really bad with money.

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Speaker 1: But I've never met anyone whom I have not helped or I can't help. You'll be surprised about how practical money manifesting can be. And it's not about lighting a candle under the full moon and just making wishes. It's about taking a practical inventory of your past experiences and examining it with all your beliefs and habits around money. Reason six, you feel like you repel money.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you have a real feast or feminine relationship to money. You know how to manifest money quickly when you really need to. But it's not predictable or it comes at a great personal cost. Like, for example, you're really stressed out or burnout. When you have a good month, you often attract unexpected bills or fines that will wipe it all out.

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Speaker 1: So you're always going like two steps forward and one steps back. Ten steps forward and three steps back. And that can be so frustrating. Reason number seven, you want to make more money, but you're also scared some people are surprised to learn that even millionaires are scared. Making more money doesn't make the fear go away.

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Speaker 1: Same for me. Even at the stage where I'm at, making money is scary sometimes. Now, for example, you could be scared by your own personal potential because of your vision for your life is huge. You sometimes worry about what it would mean to be truly wealthy, that somehow it would turn into a negative experience. Or you would sabotage it in some way.

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Speaker 1: Or you are worried that some history of ghost or past souls of people will come back and ask you for money. Or you're worried about your parents who ask you for money. You're worried about your relatives coming to ask you for money. If you are rich, you worry about tax bills because you worry about getting into trouble. You worry about losing your privacy or safety.

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Speaker 1: You worry you get scammed. You worry about friends and family asking you for more money. You worry that it's actually going to be a huge negative experience. And you can see where I'm going. This is really common.

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Speaker 1: And you can see these conflicting things and how much they could be holding you back. Okay, so that's the seven pretty big signs that you need to work on your money mindset. How much money do you think you have left on the table because of your money blocks? Maybe your wake-up call this year is that there's no time like the present to make your dreams come true. If you are still listening, it's pretty obvious that you have money blocks that you need to deal with.

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Speaker 1: Everyone has their own flavor of money blocks and I'm here to help you identify yours and clear it. I've created a free masterclass to help you start clearing your money blocks and limiting beliefs and those sabotaging patterns. It will walk you through, step by step, through recognizing them and then dealing with the seven most common entrepreneurial money blocks, okay? And then you can get it free today from soulrichwoman.com. That is S-O-U-L-R-I-C-H-W-O-M-A-N.com

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Speaker 1: Remember, money blocks doesn't have to derail you. You can embrace them and move on to creating the life that you want, the F-word that you want for yourself, family, financial independence, being fabulous, having freedom. But it all starts with your awareness. Once you know your block, you then can stop sabotaging behaviors, that you can stop them, that they will not come to haunt you, and then you can move on to the next level.

[00:14:12]
Speaker 1: That's when you can make money no matter what. Again. That's at soulrichwoman.com. Okay, I'll see you there in a few minutes. Remember, this is your time and you are ready for your next step.

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Speaker 1: For Women who love the F word, being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence, and a happy family. You can have it all.