Show NotesEpisode 17: My Dream Came True
I believe we can change the world, but first, we’ve got to stop living in fear of being judged for who we are.
Hi, I’m Genecia Alluora, founder of the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia supporting one million women to own and love the F-word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence, and family. We’ve challenged women everywhere to stop talking themselves out of their dreams.
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Hello and welcome to today's episode. My name is Genie Allura. Welcome welcome. I want to share with you about how my dream came true because I choose to focus on one thing and to dedicate my time on that thing instead of going all over the place, which means being a jack of all trades master of none versus being seen as a leader and expert for fault leader business owner in a single area and laser focus got me to where I am today. So my dream came true recently.
I was one of the speakers at success resources virtual event alongside Jay Abraham Pihaf Eka on different subjects that we are strong in and that we talked about being claims with beside them on the posters. To me meant a great deal, that means, you know when you are being recognized and you are being seen as a leader. Well, that will really transform your life and your business. So I'm very glad that it happened and it was not by chance. It was not overnight because it happened gradually over the years in 2017. I was already in the Philippines speaking alongside Mary Buffett as well as in Hong Kong with Gary Vaynerchuk and then later on in 2018 on the same stage with Ping Jun, with Neill Patel and so on, and so forth.
It's kind of like, you know, you got to take steps baby steps to move closer to your goals, right? So, what was that one thing I focused on I remembered when I was having my mentorship with James, James Wee, now also the part. Soul Rich Woman he told me he said janeshia. What are you doing every day right now and I'm like, yeah? I'm just doing like you just stuff like operations where marketing and sales and you know helping different people going for different speaking gigs and you know these events and I was just basically the listing out every possible thing that I was busy with and then he said. “Well, what is actually your goal, you know every single month and every single year and Ultimate Dream, you know” and then he said then I was like, okay. Yes. I am. I want to be a global speaker, you know while building so rich woman the growing on our membership, you know and reaching out and empowering women to own and love the F-word just being fabulous having Freedom Financial Independence and family and above all knowing that he can bring a distance online brings their leadership online whether it's 95 employees. Is it an entrepreneur, stay-at-home moms who want to make it possible for every single woman here in Southeast Asia and in Asia. And I looked at my time spent I was like I didn’t have a lot of time left. It seems I was so busy with everybody else's project. James said one thing that kind of let me pause just like how I paused earlier.
I'm like, hey, I'm just busy with busyness and not really busy in my dreams and my business and I was like an aha moment for me at that very moment in time. I'm thinking” I didn't focus on the one thing” and James said, “Genecia, if you want to be that Global speaker”.
Then you have to let go of all the small things. I don't know the moment. I realize that we humans have this need to feel significant and sometimes being the founder of the company CEO of the company. We become the choke point all the bottleneck for our businesses because we are not prioritizing or maybe we think we thought that we are paralyzing, but actually we are just busy with everybody else's things. Events, dreams, and everything else. So I reflected over I will say, weeks thinking about what you said because I struggled right? I mean I'm human as well and I struggle with this notion of letting go of all the things that I'm doing, you know busy attending events, helping another person, you know to give another webinar going to another platform to do things, collaborate, and do this, look for partnerships and everything else. And he came I came to a conclusion and the conclusion was wow. I must let go of the need to feel significant.
Bye, you know being so busy and everything else. I wanted to feel important to be a disease helping my different friends, different girlfriends, different community,p people, you know, just want to just be helping everybody. Well, I know what we only have 24 hours a day literally 24 hours a day and we have a dream and we only have limited time and by the time I grew old, I don't want to look back and have regrets. So it's Why toggling between all these mental blocks and tug of war and all these things so you know what I took out for my toolkit parts integration. I kind of did like the integration of my soul by using my technique and my kind of integrated different parts like broken pieces of me kind of like the plot of war parts of me. I wrote it down on a piece of paper. I draw out the different parts they were they were talking to me. I was aware of the noises between my years and then I pick the pieces up and I said unconscious mind let them integrate.
Unconscious mind let them can t great and I called the “God, I want to integrate all these pieces and move to the higher purpose where I'm at” and I'm supposed to be vibrating it and it happened and over a period of time. In fact in the next few days. I started to feel a difference in the way. I look at things and the way I do my busyness, so I started to drop off certain projects and it's kind of like collaborations with people, and instead of even starting as I declined to learn to set healthy boundaries and say no and remembering what my mentor James he told me. He said I rather not be doing anything and be thinking about my business on how I can achieve my dreams and doing exactly just that to achieve their way. One thing and one thing only so that I dropped everything and I chose to only focus on big projects. And guess what when the time came success resources contacted me and said, “Hey Genecia, are you able to come for meeting immediately and that, you know, we want you to be a speaker sign-on speaker for our platform.
And because I was no longer busy with busyness, I was choosing to focus on one thing and one thing only.
And this happened I was able to respond positively to the appointment and went ahead with the meeting and that was how it got started in 2019. I spoke on the same stage as the key speaker with Kim Kiyosaki and I was also the host of the entire event with 1,000 women sitting there in Singapore Expo and you know is dead.
Equip and empower women alongside big names and meeting Kiyosaki herself in a person being able to sit down and have coffee with her and asking her this cash flow queen what she's really thinking about and picking her brains and by just doing this one thing which is to focus on the one thing and one thing only and then not having the need to be significant or feel significant by being busy with everything else or everybody else's dreams or everybody else's things or things that are not so important but I think is important but actually by my mentor some kind of like viewpoint. I'm doing a lot of not important things and by really letting go has helped me to achieve my dreams.
I'm not asking you to give up everything that you're doing and then just do nothing. That's not what I did. I let go of all the small things while focusing on getting their towards my dreams by, for example, I was no focus more on recording and creating digital products ready for you know, helping more women. I was recording my auto webinars. I was doing no marketing. So things that lead up to the bigger piece that you know that I am.
Ozzy and deserving of that dream. So you unraveling that piece or the mystery right now that are you doing that thing that is leading up exactly to your dream. Like if you want to be the speaker that recognized on a global stage you want to be able to speak Purcell to empower inspire people around the world then are you doing the things that are leading up to that or are you just trying to be Being small and telling yourself the lies that or I need to be everything to everybody that I can achieve my dream or my dream can wait, but what is the story that you're telling yourself? So today, I want to encourage you to look into focusing on the one thing that you can focus on on your dream and exactly the steps to get there.
So if you're stuck, you're uncertain, you're still not sure you know what I'm here to help, you can always connect with me book my time schedule a clarity call or 45 minutes coaching call with me and I'll be able to assist you and help you and guide through to go from stuck to unstoppable my help and Mentor didn't with me to get myself from stuck to unstoppable and therefore today being able to stand on the global stage along with big names.
And speaking alongside with them having coffee with them, having connections with them just by phone directly, I can WhatsApp them, I can talk to them and all these would not have been possible. If I had not done the first step which was to let go of all the small things and then keep focusing on them one thing and the one thing that brings me to the next step closer to my dreams. So what are you doing with your life? Right now, so take care. Let me know what you thought about today's episode and I look forward to seeing you in the next one.
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