Show Notes135: What You Can Do When The Law Of Attraction Is Not Working For You
Hello and welcome to ‘Soul Why? Secrets Of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint’ I am Genecia Alluora, author of two best-selling books, former Ms. Singapore, café retail chain owner, Southeast Woman Asia of Excellence 2010, and International Progressive Women 2019, I’m also the Founder of Soul Rich Woman.
When I first came across the Law of Attraction, very much earlier in my career, it’s very exciting. It’s like Christmas for me or Chinese New Year, a birthday party.
You think, “Oh my god, how could this possibly be true? Can I really just ASK for something and get it, Genecia? This is AMAZING.”
So, you see. You can set goals, make a dream board and wait. You feel like you’ve done everything right because you pasted all the photos, images, the car you want, the house you want, the husband you want, the money you want. So you get really pissed off because nothing happens. You said to the Universe “Hello, Universe, why are you not giving me, where’s the thing all I asked for?”.
03:05- 03:14 I had someone ask me for advice recently, and she was confused about how this works. She loves following our podcast show.
03: 21- 03:37 And she was incredibly frustrated. “Genecia, I’m really panicking. I have no money in my bank account right now and I’ve got three big bills to pay this month. What am I supposed to do?”
03:38- 03:57 So I said “To start with, stop feeling bad and scared about it. It will only make it worse. Even though you’re worried, start by first, affirming that everything will be okay. Two, visualize yourself paying your bills easily. Three feel the feeling of being so taken care of by the Universe.”
03:59- 04:17 And she said “Genecia, you don’t understand what I’m saying. How am I supposed to do that when I have no money in my bank account? It’s true! Everything that you’re saying is lovely, Genecia, but in reality there is nothing there in my bank account.” She's constantly experiencing04:21- 04:25 Negative affirmations are just as powerful as the positive ones.
04:26- 04:28 When you say “I have no money”,
04:38-04:49 you’ll only perpetuate the feelings of fear and anxiety, which will probably attract even more bills and unexpected expenditure.
04:51- 05:38 The funny part of the situation was that she couldn’t see the pattern. Of course, I was the mentor. She's constantly experiencing this feeling of having no money. Complaining and wining and then at least once a month she was running out of money, and she was unwilling to look inside and change. I told her to stay positive and to affirm that something would come up. And it did. Someone, eventually, gave her money out of the blue, and she was saved that very month.
05:39- 06:13 Then the horror story came, the next month she wrote to me and said “Genecia, I did another Law of Attraction experiment like you said and asked for $2,000 to show up today. And it didn’t. Why?” And it gets a bit frustrating on my nerves, actually. I wanted to tell her – “Look, there is a process, okay? It’s not always you think, you want, you want it now and then it will show up instantly in a snap of your finger.”
06:27- 06:48 You know what, there is a process here. It’s not always going to show up instantly if you’re not willing to do the inner work involved. It’s so much fun when things manifest instantly, but most of the time there is a time lag and there’s no way of knowing how long.
07:12- 07:20 Because we’re not truly aligned to what we want, and we have to do some emotional or physical decluttering, it can be symbolic.
07:28- 07:51 We may have to look at self-beliefs we have around money or take stock of some of our bad habits. Most people can’t be bothered. They want to instant solution and find a magical fairy, but not do any work towards it or change their behavior in any way.
09:23 - 09:47 Trust me, you can learn to be lucky, to be able to attract the F-word in to your life, Fabulous, Freedom, Financial Independence, and Happily easily and effortlessly. The trick is to master the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint to stay positive even when your reality is temporarily something totally different.
- Stop feeling bad and scared about it.
- Visualize yourself paying your bills easily.
- Feel the feeling of being so taken care of by the Universe.
- Don’t perpetuate the feelings of fear.
- Negative affirmations are powerful as the positive ones.
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